Welcome to the Sexual Love Zone! This is a feature where we ask Sexual Lovers different questions to satisfy your curiosity. Whether they are fetish models, porn stars, cam models, or independent content producers, every sexual lover has their perspective to share with their fans and other sexual lovers. This week, we would like to introduce Arwen Datnoyd. Join us on our journey to get to know this cute cosplay girl from Canada as we delve deeper into advice for beginners, the inspiration that fetish provides, and Arwen’s preparation process to create a clip. Let’s get started!
I think the hardest thing about breaking into this industry is seeing so many different people doing their own thing and trying to copy it. People say to do what you’re comfortable with and be yourself, but you don’t know how to do that and market simultaneously. This is not an easy thing to do. But it’s all true. We all did our thing and found a way to turn it into sexual love. The most successful people are the ones who consistently do what they love. When you are having fun, the customers notice it. Believe me. I think one of the best things you can do when you start is to try different things. There are endless ways to make videos, endless fetishes, infinite ways to realize any fetish, and the unique touch you can bring may make some clients fall in love with you at first sight. Because there is no one like you, do.
At first, the equipment is not a big deal. Filming with your phone and using an editing app to add a watermark is okay. Find something you enjoy and record it over and over again. Find what you like the most and observe your sexual love to find what you can improve. I think fetish is one of the most enjoyable sexual acts you can do in the industry. There are so many kinks in it; it’s wild! My quirks and things excite me, triggering certain feelings for me. It’s incredible to imagine them doing something as simple as oiling their feet or telling someone to smack themselves and get their pleasure out of it. Sometimes, people have kinks that they find hard to say to others or their partners about. So it’s great to give people an outlet so they can approach the work with the same peace of mind that I do.
I often write down video ideas when I have them, so I choose five or ten depending on how I feel when I shoot. Then I put on makeup, pick cute outfits, and rotate my content to keep it fresh so that it doesn’t look like I shot everything in a few hours (lol). Through fetish, I learned to talk in front of the camera. I never really spoke in my videos, but fetish gave me the courage to speak. It broadened my repertoire, from JOI to talking to someone through sounding. The best way is to turn on the camera and speak. I let my mood determine what I say. I spontaneously come up with 99% of my videos. Sometimes, it’s obvious; other times, I feel the flow, and it just clicks.
