Gentlemen, do you watch bondage movies as a source of inspiration to spice up your sex life? Do you dream of the day when you can have the same sexual experience as in adult movies: acrobatic positions, multiple orgasms, hours of sex, double penetration, crazy sex toys, and breathtaking climaxes? Well, you need to stop fantasizing and understand that a lot of what you see in bondage is unrealistic and does not apply to real life.
Here are some sex moves that most women would instead not use in their sexual encounters.
When you watch bondage and see couples changing positions every few minutes, don’t you want to try it yourself? Remember that quality is always more important than quantity, and you don’t have to be a sex maniac to have the most amazing sexual experience of your life. Why change positions after a few minutes if it feels excellent for you and your partner? Just for variety? If your wife feels ecstasy in that particular position, why stop and change it? Of course, multiple sex positions can be fun and exciting, but not if you look at it as something to check off your “to-do list.” But in bondage, constantly changing positions is a must so your viewers don’t get bored. Using saliva as a lube is just a lazy way to avoid foreplay and the steps to keep your partner well-lubricated. Spitting on your partner’s genitals to make them wet is a common bondage practice, but that doesn’t mean it works in the bedroom.
This bondage move should be banned in the bedroom because there is no room for laziness or shortcuts in sex. No woman wants to drool all over her naked body, so leave that to the bondage performers.
The ear is a very erogenous zone with many nerve endings, but that doesn’t mean you have to stick your whole tongue there. Slow licking and biting the earlobe will give you even better results. Using your tongue too much can ruin cunnilingus on a date. You’re not going down to wet her with your tongue, so stop that nasty act and learn the correct cunnilingus technique.
Even if you see it in bondage, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s fun or will lead to orgasm. And even if you know a bondage star doing it, it doesn’t mean he’s an experienced lover.
Do you watch male performers in bondage thrusting continuously for long periods and dream of the moment when you will achieve this feat? Well, you need to remember that sex is not a sport… It is designed to keep you healthy, burn calories, and prove the body’s resilience. Sex means pleasure, desire, desire, overwhelming sensations, and erotic movements.
Even if you are a god in bed and can last for hours, do not forget your partner and check from time to time if she is still excited by your long performance. Even if you make overwhelming thrusts, it will all be in vain if the woman is tired and bored.
Everyone knows that when watching bondage, you have to turn down the volume because of the intense high-pitched screams of pleasure. That’s why most men expect the same enthusiastic response during real sex.
But screaming wildly and loudly is just part of the performance… so don’t judge your sexual performance by the screams of pleasure you elicit from your sex partner.
Some women don’t scream, but some prefer moaning and scratching sounds. This is just like why some men are quiet during sex and others scream.
So keep looking at bondage for fun, but try to better distinguish between what you can recreate in bed and what is just for show.
Communicate with your partner and find out what he likes and dislikes when it comes to sex, and you’ll have the amazing sex you dream of.
